things to update after a legal name change!

quakerboy:

goawayterfs:

  • Social security card
  • Driver’s license
  • Passport
  • Birth certificate
  • Employer HR
  • Bank account
  • Credit card company
  • Car insurance
  • Health insurance
  • Utilities
  • Cell phone account
  • Voter registration
  • Your school
  • Professional organizations (for nursing, bar, teaching, etc.)
  • Doctor’s office & other health specialists
  • TV & internet
  • Paypal

*Please add to this list if you can think of anything else!!!

#1 thing I notice trans people forget to change after just a social name change is their voicemail recording!

is this what growing up is like

twodotsknowwhy:

spawnofsay10:

chiaroscar:

imagitory:

rcmclachlan:

grand-duc:

wigglyflippingout:

me at 14: wow, protagonists in media my age! how relateable!

me at 28: WHY ARE THERE SO MANY CHILD SOLDIERS? WHERE ARE ALL THE ADULTS? WHO LET THIS HAPPEN AND WHY ARE THEY NOT BEING PROSECUTED BY LAW WITHIN THESE FICTIONAL UNIVERSES

In the same vein:

Me at 14: oh protagonists that are 17-20-ish, they’re basically adults, right?

Me at 28: Oh my Gods you’re babies who left you in charge?!

Ariel: Daddy, I love him!
Me at 14: Yeah, girl, you tell him!
Me at 30:

Marnie in Halloweentown: I’m thirteen, okay? I’m practically grown up! I’m certainly old enough to make my own choices – right?

Me at 7: Right!

Me at 13: Right! …Well, okay, maybe not practically grown up, but still, right!

Me at 28:

You either die young or live long enough to see yourself become the villain.

This is so true

Me as teenager: Yeah, girl, you hook up with that older guy, this is super hot!

Me as an adult: all of these men should be arrested

539481:

Modes a Infj can be in

1. Existential crisis mode

2. So done with humanity mode

3. Loving and caring deeply mode

4. Being overly passionate about something mode

5. Hibernation mode

Feel free to add some more in the comments 🤣

chia-petofficial:

bibohbii:

chia-petofficial:

bibohbii:

chia-petofficial:

Plance is gonna be canon, holy SHIT!

OKAY OKAY SO:

Bex posted this recently:

So, right off the bat, suspicious.

The emoji is obviously.. a plant. There’s nothing making it specifically to a type of plant, so, it’s just a plant. Next is a gif of Lance.

We can tell she definitely is referring to Lance instead of using it as some joke because this gif is one of the first to come up when Lance is searched into Twitters gif option

So, plant and Lance.

Plant + Lance = Plance. This definitely isn’t a coincidence since Bex is an avid pidge and lance shipper who KNOWS a popular ship name is Plance.

Next up, a even bigger piece of evidence:

Bex responded to her tweet with this

So, I don’t know this off the top of my mind, so I did some digging, and this quote is from Romeo And Juliet.

This definitely isn’t a coincidence either. Lance is totally in love with Allura right now, but he’s developing and changing. Come the right time, he’ll drop her for someone else. And this is only reinforced by the Allura gif, which is also one of the first to come up when you search up Allura on twitters gif search

Now, plance is pidge and lance. Bex is Pidges voice actor.

And lance is getting over allura and will fall in love with someone else.

Plance is canon, wiener boys.

Since I’m on a plance is canon spree

since you reblogged, i have to mention that someone actually asked Bex about these tweets and she was smirking throughout the whole thing, and didn’t answer the questions because “she likes to keep ambiguity”. she also added that she sometimes just likes using the voltron gifs as reactions, but i think it goes without saying that there’s not much to react to when you tweet a plant emoji and a Romeo and Juliet quote. I’ve got the video!

She looks so CAUGHT.

you saw the video?? it’s seriously so funny

a-smol-gayologist:

cozyhotpapi:

goldenpoc:

rubydat98:

zionsun:

badgyal-k:

princessfailureee:

caramelanin:

and patience

and compromise. and learning.

Giving up pride

^^^

And communicating.

forgiving what exactly?

Forgiving the fact that they’re people who are working through their past, like you, and will occasionally project their past traumas on you the way you might with them. Forgiving yourself, because growth takes time, and learning to be a pair is more work than just being on your own. Having partners you trust to forgive those moments where you might fall, help you back up and move forward, in my opinion, builds up the trust and love you need for a thriving relationship.

That last comment was beautiful.