hate2breakittoya:

you know that straight “gay people don’t think or talk about being gay all the time!!” bullshit they use to justify why gay characters in media shouldn’t be visibly gay

i literally do think about being gay all the time

every time het culture is shoved in my face i think about being gay, every time i see a cute girl i think about being gay. every time someone talks about their love life or asks about mine i think about being gay. i think about it randomly when i space out and when i eat breakfast or go grocery shopping

if gay people aren’t visibly gay in front of you, i have news! you’re likely a homophobe and they don’t feel safe expressing their identity with you around!