infjs aren’t unicorns.

smol-phoenix-feather:

How come all the posts I see on Tumblr about INFJs describe us as clever, mystical, ethereal beings who always have their heads in the clouds??

Maybe some of us are like that – but what about the confused infjs who sometimes feel like a mix of every type??

All the infjs I know are introverted, outgoing, quiet, insecure, confident, intelligent, can’t-do-the-talking-thing, dreamers, pessimists,optimists, just all round constantly confused beings who just need a hug and who will cry at any injustice. 

We aren’t ethereal beings. We are confused beings who are mostly nerds and dreamers and idealists, who mostly lack the optimism to put our plans into action.

I don’t know. I’m just not a unicorn, okay. I’m just a confused lil human who sometimes feels like a mix of everything. Eh.

INFJ Confession #3216

infjanon:

sometimes i’m convinced that i don’t exactly have feelings of my own. i’m very empathetic. if the people around me are sad i can feel it a tenth-fold more deeply within every cell of my body. if something horrible happens it feels like the weight of the world is crashing down on me. if others are happy my heart feels fuller and i’m buzzing with excitement. but then when i’m alone, even if solitude is the state i’m most comfortable in, i can’t help but notice the lack of emotions i truly have.