aries: being less afraid of “serious situations” and understanding they have the ability of overcome any harship. you don’t have to run
taurus: cutting out old habits and friends that impede improvement in favor of doing what’s comfortable
gemini: realizing knowledge is not always an acceptable substitution for emotions. finding people they can be their true selves with
cancer: learning to see people for who they are, not for who you want them to be.
leo: finding genuine people to give their affection to, learning to distinguish sincere compliments and attention from those who use flattery to get in your life with ill intentions
virgo: finding ways to dispel some of that nervous energy that comes from the constant need to be better and be useful
libra: figuring out what it is they are truly passionate about and applying their natural talents towards that, learning to be more consistent
scorpio: realizing that some of the suspicion of others is just projection and becoming less afraid of their intensity
sagittarius: allowing themselves to be more vulnerable with loved ones: the appeal of being the “fun loving friend” only lasts for so long
capricorn: being more confident in their decisions, if anyone has planned for the future appropriately…it’s a capricorn
aquarius: trying to live more in the moment. enjoy the small things and loosen up, and realize that other people know just as much, if not more, than you
pisces: understanding that sometimes we create our own problems and learning to stand up for themselves instead of waiting for someone else to do so
There’s no rule book for how you should be after a trauma.
Whether you’re sex-repulsed or hypersexual or both. That’s okay.
Whether you’re an emotional wreck, angry, numb or even a mixture. That’s okay.
Whether you’ve shared your story or kept it to yourself. That’s okay.
It doesn’t matter if you came out kind or hardened.
You don’t have to be any certain way or deal in any specific way.
You’re here. You’ve survived. That’s enough. You are enough.
I just want to be held…to be told its okay…i want someone to rush over and tell me not to do it…i for once in my life want to feel like im not a problem…but if i ask for someone to help me…then ill feel even worse…cause it will just prove i am a problem a inconvenience to everyone…