I haaate the stereotype of lesbians being predatory like when I came out at 14 one of my good friends felt ‘uncomfortable’ having a sleepover with me because she legit thought I would behave sexually towards her.
It’s damaged me to the point where I feel like I can’t tell my crush I like her because I might be viewed as creepy/pushing it too much.
Young lesbians have to deal with this stuff and it’s so awful for our self esteem
The whole “incel lesbian” thing is literally this rhetoric repackaged btw (“lesbians try to go after straight women who don’t want to be with them”)