
Bringing this back.
for all of u who dont understand or want to understand what an asexual person is
Raising asexual awareness every reblog
I’m so glad I found this, I’ve had many questions about asexuality and this answered them.
Time to inform some ignorant assholes.Oh.
i know a certain group of people who really needs this…… :3c
Some aces do feel sexual attraction, but still choose to identify as ace for other reasons like trauma or sex-repulsion and that’s ok, too. If being in the community helps you, you are welcome here.
Ace is the one sexuality I am constantly in a state of confusion about, I thought I get it but…. again, I…have questions.
(Don’t mean to sound rude, let me be clear on that, I’m asking because I want to understand these things.)
You do not experience sexual attraction to people, okay, but… how do you have and enjoy sex with someone if you are not sexually attracted to them? I’m seriously asking how, because if you just enjoy the things they do to you, since you have a functioning body that responds to things, does that mean that when it comes to sex it can basically be anybody? Any body type, any kind of person since you won’t feel attraction anyways? Let’s talk about just sex now, I’m more clear on it if it’s a relationship . Sorry, I’m just curious.
Another thing that’s not a question, more like an advice is that I observed in young people, that some of them identify as ace not because they don’t feel sexual attraction, but because they are afraid of sex. (I know this because I talk to people, I didn’t made it up okay.) Afraid of being naked in front of someone and nervous about what to do. It’s totally okay, but I just want to make things clear that being afraid of your first times is not the same as not experiencing sexual attraction. Being nervous and stuff is absolutely normal, but you might want to dig to the root of that if you feel that you actually are sexually attracted to people, you will come to terms with yourself and accept yourself easier.