I don’t hate Ichigo. In fact, I kind of do like her as a character.
However, she is selfish in terms of her feelings. Manipulative to try to get what she wants. She’s too concerned with her own feelings to recognize Zero Two’s or Hiro’s.
She’s fucking up and allowing her flaws to get the better of her rather than seeing the full picture. I think she has the potential to be a good leader and of her character arc, this is clearly one of the low points. I think that she does care, but how she handles showing it and going about said care is more detrimental than helpful.
The road to hell is paved with good intentions. I don’t think she has bad intentions. But damn girl you fuckin up.