iamatinyowl:

iamatinyowl:

Don’t date men who dont do housework/chores until they’re asked.

By that I mean: it is not your responsibility alone to keep track of and manage the household labour and chores.

Do not date someone who expects you to tally and distribute tasks like they’re a child getting chores from their parents.

You should never feel like the parent nagging for chores to be done before playtime in an adult partnership.

I am not talking about people who have executive dysfunction and have consensual agreements with their partners about reminding them of things. I am talking about people who EXPECT their partners to keep track of all the household maintenance without any form of consensual system in place.