This is just my take on how I see the cognitive functions of INFP’s and INTJ’s working together. Disclaimer: any couple of
any mbti can make it work. I strongly believe that. That said: there’s a definite attraction between INFP’s and INTJ’s and a lot of reasons why it’s an ideal match.
Note: I’m ENFJ, not INTJ or INFP, so this is all from the outside looking in.INFP: Fi-Ne-Si-Te INTJ: Ni-Te-Fi-Se
Te/Fi
Te is charismatic.
It’s a confident problem solving function. It allows the Te user to quickly
size up a situation and see a solution and take charge. They know how to slip into a persona and
work a crowd and can give brilliant presentations. They’re brilliant in arguments.
And yeah, some may act like they know everything and they really don’t, but
there’s something kinda hot about someone who always seems to know who they are
and where they’re going.Fi is passionate,
resilient, and steady. There’s something about them that comes off as
child-like, most likely the result of their Ne or Se. A happy Fi user often seems playful, soft, and fluffy. Fi has an edge, however. While they can take a
lot, they all have values they would readily go to war for. Unlike Fe, which takes
others into consideration, Fi users live by their own moral code, and if a
value is violated, the Fi user must defend it at all costs. If that means
hurting someone else, it’s a necessary sacrifice. Fi doms can be incredibly
stubborn, uncooperative, and a bitter Fi dom can become paranoid, vengeful, and
spiteful due to their permanent pessimism.