When people get pregnant, they will give up smoking, give up alcohol, give up coffee and soda, give up fondue and raw cheese, give up cold cuts and sushi, all because they have heard somewhere, from someone, that these things can be bad for the baby. They don’t know the research, haven’t looked at the studies, can’t talk about sample sizes and control groups. But their dedication to their future child’s safety is so strong, their caution is so overpowering, that they give up these things just in case.
So it baffles me when those same people will insist on spanking their kids.
Even when they are shown the research.
Regardless of what the experts in the field say.
People are so invested in this ability to hit their kids without judgement or consequence, that it absolutely confounds me.
the problem is all you retards think punishing your children in any form is abuse
and all of these studies do the same.which makes them uselessLmao best believe I’m smacking tf out my kids if I catch them doing drugs or anything illegal for that matter
Even though all research and experts in the field say that physical discipline does more harm than good and fails to address the source of misbehavior?
Yeah. Guaranteed ass-whooping if they do anything illegal.
Kinda sounds like you just want to beat your kids, not actually help them be functional, well adjusted adults. Maybe don’t physically assault your children.
Punishing your kids doesn’t equal assaulting them.
But then again what can you expect from a blog like this
Punishing your kid by “smacking the fuck out of” them and giving them an “ass-whooping” is assaulting them. Please learn more about non-abusive parenting methods before you decide to become a parent.
Spanking your kids isn’t abusive though? I was abused as a kid. (Not by my parents). I was also punished with spankings, time outs, whatever else. There’s a complete difference between the two. Literally anyone I have ever met that was spanked as a child has turned out fine? A simple smack to the ass or a slap on the hand isn’t going to kill your child.
You’re still hurting a minor, possibly making them more inclined to do illegal things to go against you. You are inflicting pain on your own child. It’s despicable and it does not help. There are other ways.
Some abuse is worse than other, but intentionally hurting your child is still abuse. It does not equal rape, for example. But then again stealing a bottle of nail polish is theft, just like stealing all the money in the cash register is theft, even though the two differ in value.
It’s literally not abuse though and it pisses me off when people try to compare it to actual abuse. One tap to your child’s butt is not abuse. People seem to think that they’re hitting their child with a fucking fist or someshit. You don’t even tap them hard enough to make them cry jfc
Even when they are shown the research.
There’s never any reason to hit your child. I was spanked as a child and it did nothing but make me fear my parents. My parents spanked my brother and my mom even said that he didn’t behave because of it and he hates the way they parented him. Same thing happens with all my other family members’ kids. It does nothing but cause fear or more acting up. Learn how to actually discipline your child without verbally or physically disciplining them or don’t have kids. It’s simple.
A spanking is not abuse🤷🏾♂️💯 fuck all them studies if I ain’t get ass whoopings Id probably be dead or in jail already. Simple. I know plenty kids who parents let them do whatever the fuck. A lot of em are actually dead. This new age kill me🤦🏾♂️
Even when they are shown the research.
i’ve only ever seen parents use spaking as “discipline” when the parent themselves is in a pissy mood and their child is making them angry. it’s not a tool used to disicpline and educate, it’s an outlet for parents who are angry that their child is acting like a child.
If you child is old enough to understand reason, talk to them. If they’re not old enough to understand reason, they’re not old enough to understand why you’re hitting them.
I was spanked as a kid and I grew up with this thing called respect. I don’t fear my parents. I don’t hate them. I appreciate and trust and respect love them. They spanked me if I did bad things. Behaviour worth being spanked for (like biting, for example). I was spanked on the behind and never bit again. And I turned out just fine. Unless you class being bi af a result of it. 🤔🤔
Even when they are shown the research. http://ns.umich.edu/new/releases/23732-spanking-does-more-harm-than-good
Regardless of what the experts in the field say. https://www.aap.org/en-us/about-the-aap/aap-press-room/aap-press-room-media-center/Pages/Discipline.aspx
No matter who says it. https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/moral-landscapes/201309/research-spanking-it-s-bad-all-kids
Or how it is said.
EVEN RAISING A HAND TO YOUR CHILD AFTER SPANKING THEM WILL,MAKE,THEM,FLINCH AND,FEAR YOU…IT DOENST MATTER,IF YOU,DONT THINK,ITS ABUSE…BECAUSE IT IS..BECAUSE,YOUR,CHILD,NOW FEARS YOU…as someone who was spanked and,beat half to death by my own father…i see no difference in spanking and getting beat…both left me shaking and scared and crying and not being able to sleep at night for fear he would hit me more…which he did sometimes…raising your hand once to your,child tells,them,that you,could start doing worse to them if they dont,become the perfect,child…it doenst fix anything to hit your,child…it only,makes,it worse…it had affected the rest of my,life in more than one way…and if you say that you,got hit as a kid and your,just find and say its okay to hit,your child…then your a ignorant twat…because some of us cant handle what has happened to us…some of us end up with cptsd or worse…so if you raise your,hand to your,kid…you,better be aware of how you,may harm your,kid in the future….
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