anxiouslydepressedintrovert:

INFJ Stuff

We love people, but can also REALLY hate them.

I think it’s the fact that first we put in so much effort to care for them, be the type of person they need, listen and understand them. Like REALLY understand them. And fulfill all of their needs in any way we can. And then they don’t put in that effort for us, or sometimes just come to us so we can do things for them. And that really sucks. So we end up really not liking people for doing that to us. And then we avoid people, but always find someone else to care for again.