OK this may just be me but I get really uncomfortable when people try to figure me out, even tho I always try and figure everyone else out… is this a me thing or an INFJ thing? (I’m an INFJ incase u didn’t figure that out)

idk-infj:

Hi, I do think this might be an INFJ thing, but I’m honestly not sure and I think it may vary from INFJ to INFJ; some less uncomfortable than others. Since INFJs tend to have a lot of “layers” and thoughts they keep to themselves, they’d probably see it as people slowly diving into those layers of privacy, so it makes sense that we’d would find this unsettling. I can guarantee you that you are not the only INFJ uncomfortable of this when people trying to figure you out.

Speaking from my own experiences, I do find it nerve-wracking when people try to figure me out, but strangely exciting as well. It kind of puts a different feeling there as well, an action and adventure feeling, although uncomfortableness just ends up ruling over sooooo

its an infj thing i assure u